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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 13:53

How does one succeed in life?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Do not set goals—set systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Does not procrastinate.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What disturbed you today?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

That's it for today.

Ask yourself:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.